You know the old saying, “nothing is certain in life but death and taxes.” Well, the same holds true for change. Daily changes surface, and we need to deal with them. We might not always recognize it, but it is right in front of us. And I should be the first to tell you – change was a substantial part of my life. Not just a slight change but a significant change. Living in many new locations, attending new schools, and meeting new people.
The only stable thing in my life during those informative years was my family: dad, mom, and sister. And the new scenario happened roughly every few months. Can you imagine yourself in that situation?
I look back and am thankful I didn’t know any other way. The transient lifestyle began when I was a year old, and it stopped when my father retired.
As many of you know, I am currently writing my memoir. I moved forty-five times before I graduated from high school. I even changed colleges so that I could be close to my family. I want to share these unique experiences with all of you.
When researching “change,” I found several quotes I thought you might enjoy.
- “Moving doesn't change who you are. It only changes the view outside your window.” Rachel Hollis
- “Change is inevitable. Growth is optional.” John Maxwell
- “There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind.” C.S. Lewis
- "Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me." Carol Burnett
- "Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past and present are certain to miss the future." John F. Kennedy
- "If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude." Maya Angelou
- "The measure of intelligence is the ability to change." Albert Einstein
When dealing with change, the best way to approach it is with excitement and eager anticipation. Change allows a person the chance to experience new things, whether it be a new location, learning about different history, new landscaping, or new people, who could end up being a friend for life.
Over the different moves, I tried my best to be a good pen pal and keep those friends I had recently made, but before long, my new acquaintances became friends, and my time was occupied with my latest activities. That is why I wanted to write my memoir to share my experiences over those 21 years. I am grateful that both my parents had that mindset and looked forward to the adventure ahead.
Try to have that attitude of gratitude. If you don’t feel welcome in your new situation, be the first to find a sport, musical opportunity, hobby, job, or volunteer situation to join so that you find that connection.
One important thing my mom shared with me and that has stuck with me since then--don’t depend on other people to make you happy. That is up to you.
As many of us embark on another school year, let us embrace the new changes and obstacles with vigor.
All my best,
Julie
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